It’s all about YOU, Jason
Weird synergy of breakup related data factorums today:
Woman talking loudly behind me at Starbucks today, telling Jason why its over. ‘Because its been about you, Jason, all about you for the last 3 years!’
Some bluesy singer telling me with great conviction ‘A woman can only take so much, and then she has had enough!’ Oh ho!
An article in my feeds about ‘surviving the breakup’. I wonder if Jason, whoever he is, would find it comforting? Somehow I doubt it.
I note unrelated, and entirely en passant that women frequently feel they have given everything and gotten very little in return.
You will hear this refrain over and over and over again from women. Is it a martyr complex, or a failure upon the part of men to look out for our helpers?
If womens be our helpers, as per Genesis, then maybe this is valid! They give, and men are clueless often how to show appreciation. Many times a day, and seemingly endlessly, expressions of thankfulness and courtesy and deference are your friends here. ‘Refresh me with raisin cakes’
It is a sign? Am I going to be dumped? And if so, by whom? There is none to dump me, Thank You Jesus. Jesus might spit me out His mouth, but He would never DUMP me, and He is the only one I can think of.
All I know is, once you get a woman past that point, its way harder to get them back into normalcy, so lets not push them into overdrive. They will take a lot, but once they blow a gasket, you might as well hang it up.
‘The care and feeding of womens’ is probably on the Oprah Book Club, but by golly, you gotta feed the womens every day, or they starve. Granted, none should depend upon another, and in this is maturity, but between here and there, for loves sake, lets give them some attention on a regular basis, and try to put ourselves in their shoes, but not the high heeled ones. OK.
